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Male sexual assault is when you have been forced to take part in any sexual act with another male which you did not willingly consent to. Even if you did not resist or fight back at the time of the attack, it is still assault. Male rape is more common than most people think.

It is not a 'gay crime' - it happens to more straight men than gay men. Changes to the Sexual Offences Act in 1994 made the rape of a man an equal crime to rape of a woman.

Survivors often experience feelings of isolation, depression, anger, anxiety, issues about sexuality and gender, substance abuse, self-harm, eating disorders, negative body image, fears about abusing, hyperconsciousness of body and appearance.

The psychological and mental health issues which survivors often experience, can also lead to real problems with relationships. So anyone who shares his life, be it partner, friend or family, can be affected. We often receive calls from these people, who are looking for help in dealing with the effects of male rape or sexual assault on the man in their life.

When trying to come to terms with sexual assault boys and men can feel like there is nowhere to turn. Society places certain expectations on boys and men - they are supposed to be "strong" and "able to take care of themselves". This only adds to the feelings of confusion and self-doubt felt by survivors of male rape and sexual abuse. Many of them end up blaming themselves.

If you have suffered sexual abuse or rape there are lots of support organisations that can help you. We've listed these below. You can also talk to one of our Personal Advisers in complete confidence at any of our Connexions Centres.

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