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Sometimes parents fall out of love with each other often for reasons no-one else understands. They may like different things and want to do different things from each other. Because of this your parents can often begin to argue and become unhappy, but be assured that although your parents are angry during this time they are not angry at you, even if it at times they are a little snappy!
You may feel that your parents are not there for you but they are. Your parents are just trying to sort themselves out which can be difficult and can include a range of emotions ranging from sadness to anger. Although they both may not show it they are probably both feeling low and vulnerable. One thing to remember is that both your parents are there for you. Divorce is something that happens between two adults and is not because of anything that you did.
Can I stop my parents splitting up?
Your parents will have talked to each other about how they both feel and they will have tried everything that they can to make their relationship work. If your parents have decided to get divorced then you should respect their choice, knowing that they have tried thier best.
Your parents will probably decide to live in separate places. This might cause disruption at first as you might only live with one parent, or you may live with one parent sometimes and with the other at other times. This disruption will soon settle down. Your parents might have conflicting views about where you should live or they might agree on what is practically best for you. Above all, make sure your parents know how you are feeling about everything and that you don't bottle things up. It’s important they understand how you feel about your living arrangements and how often you see your parent that you don’t live with.
Youcan talk confidentially to one of our Personal Advisers at your nearest Connexions Centre/One Stop Shop. They can help to ease your concerns and point you in the right direction for further advice and support.
Childline – 0800 1111
Samaritans – 08457 90 90 90
Connexions Direct – 080 800 13 2 19
Cafcass
A website that looks after the interests of children involved in family proceedings.
It’s not your fault
This website is to help you understand and feel a bit better when you are worried about your parents splitting up.
Divorce Aid
This site provides divorce advice, support and information on any matter concerning you.
The BBC Surgery
The Surgery aims to be a useful source of clear and frank information for teenagers about personal issues with a section on divorce.
The Site
Further information about separation and divorce.
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